What it’s Like Living in a Homeless Shelter

By someone who’s been doing just that in a major U.S. city

Paul Ryburn, M.Sc.
18 min readMar 18, 2024
people congregating outside homeless shelter
Keizers, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons

In December of last year, I lost my apartment in the downtown of a major U. S. city. For the first time in my life, I was without a home.

I crashed on two friends’ couch a little past the first of the year, but I was in the way and I knew it. It was time for me to leave.

There was a men’s-only homeless shelter on the outskirts of downtown, about a mile from my now-former apartment. However, I had unanswered questions about the place.

Was it safe? Would I be beat up inside the facility? Would I be robbed of my one remaining backpack of stuff?

Would I get enough food there to stay alive?

Would I go months before I got my next shower, wearing the same clothes day in and day out, stinking, cooped up in close, un-air-conditioned quarters with dozens of other men who also stink?

I’d heard that in faith-based homeless shelters, men who stayed there were required to attend chapel daily — but that the sermons degraded the very people forced to attend them. Was that accurate? And if so, was I willing to tolerate the nightly verbal abuse in exchange for a place to sleep?

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Paul Ryburn, M.Sc.

I write about writing, ideas, creativity, homelessness, intuition, spirituality, life lessons. Ex-college teacher Twitter: @paulryburn